Guy I was seeing for a little over a month said he decided to see someone else exclusively. I let my intrusive thought win and asked what spurred his decision.
He said he like her personality better and that she is energetic and fun. Ouch. I certainly made myself feel shitty by asking that question – like I’m the opposite of that and that she is everything I’m not.
Confided in a male friend and he said she is probably just hotter. I don’t know which is worse – the fact he chose her over me because she is prettier or has a better personality or perhaps both. This stings.