I’m a f(20) sleeping with a m(21)
And I’ve been feeling like he’s not as into having me finish as much as I want him to
I recently asked him if I could possibly have a me day, where he rubs my clit, gives me head and everything till I finish. No penetration unless I ask for it. He hasn’t given me a straight yes or no answer really. And is confident that penetration gets me wetter when it doesn’t. If I have enough foreplay before hand then it doesn’t but that isn’t the case sometimes. I feel my request could possibly be selfish. But I have given him, his days just cause 90% of the time I’m totally okay with him finishing and I don’t.
I’ve sacrificed my favourite things about sex like head or rubbing my clit while having sex, when he’s too tired, has a cut on his lip, want to just penetrate as soon as possible knowing it won’t be as enjoyable for me.
But he can’t seem to give up penetration for one day, not even just one round, we could go to penetration second round I really don’t mind.
Like sometimes I just wanna have oral sex, cause I like it more and I like giving it. But he told me he can’t finish with just head. So I feel bad requesting a me day or just an oral sex day cause I wouldn’t really be satisfying him.
But I also rarely finish with him and he has always finished regardless, I just want to orgasm
Sex is nice and a g spot orgasm is good but clitoral is something different and I’ve never finished that way with him.
I just don’t know if I’m asking for too much