me and my girlfriend have been having protected sex for a little over two months now, (we lost our virginities to each other) and i’d say we’ve done it 15ish times atp. i know it’s normal for it to be painful the first few times but it’s still going on, even after a pretty reasonable amount of time. we use lube, we’ve tried every position, i feel like i’m doing things right/hitting the right spots, but she still isn’t feeling any pleasure. there’s times when she says it doesn’t hurt, it just doesn’t feel good, and when i go as deep as i can it’s really painful for her. i don’t believe it’s a mental thing because i can make her finish by rubbing her clit (never fingering however) and she’s said she’s comfortable with me. should she see a doctor? am i just dogshit at sex? if this is normal, can i get like an est. timeline to get an idea of what to expect?
tldr: my girlfriend is in pain when we have sex, when does it stop 🙁