I 30f have looked into a lot of YouTube videos about both Jack stands and ramps to use during oil change. Reason for. My husband told me a long time ago that he would want me to surprise him with a blowjob then finish him off by riding him. I’m terrified that while I ride him holding on to my car that it would crush him. But I also don’t want to ask questions or tell him since that will take the surprise out of it. So my question. Is there a safe way to do this? Or should it just stay a fantasy?