For staters I always been confident when it came to sex. Never gave it too much thought where it just flowed naturally but recently the love of my life said something to me that been stuck with me ever since. Just a little background information we have been together for 4 years the first 2 years was great then she got pregnant and kinda slowed everything down. Our son is about to be 2 and she told me that my stroke is the same and makes her not want to have sex anymore as much as we used to. We broke up for 6 months and we told each other everything that we did during the break. I’m not mad about anything it’s just one thing that for some reason I can’t get over. With the person she had sex with was amazing and he made her squirt. The squirting part don’t bother me because it has been many time she was there but never did it and released but then it happen when we got back together. But now I can’t stop overthinking every time I’m stroking trying not to do the same thing. It’s a constant thought am I doing it right, am I satisfying her correctly and I end up feeling like I’m not so I eat her pussy and make her cum every time first before we have sex. I just need some advice to help get over that thought and need ways to improve the “motion in the ocean” 😂 and ways to last longer. I try to think about it like maybe it’s because we been together for so long that it feels boring and that’s why it was amazing to have something new but idk how to get over the thought of not being able to please her how he did or how she likes when it comes to penetration.