i (21F) have been having a hard time getting wet down there and it has been making sex with my boyfriend quite painful but i haven’t told him. i’m sure he’s noticed though because the friction gets uncomfortable for him too and he’s mentioned i’ve been stressed a lot lately but there’s currently nothing i can do to appease this stress at all.
we’ve tried lube but it’s no help, doesn’t feel natural either and ruins the fun for us.
i have some hope for a quick fix, sex is not all there is to our relationship but we sure do enjoy each other like that a lot.