My husband frequently calls me a f*cker or an a**hole when he gets upset with me. He has never called me a b*tch or a c*unt.
He doesn’t think it’s a big deal since he grew up calling names to friends nor does he think it has any emotional consequence. I disagree. I hate it. He thinks those two words just aren’t a big deal.
Is there a continuum of name calling (some are worse than others) or is it all completely terrible?
I don’t even know what to think anymore. I’ve been asking him to stop for over 10 years.