Coworker. Swiped on dating app outside of work. Went on 1 date, she was nervous, awkward, barely ate anything. I recognized she was uncomfortable and I ended the date almost immediately. Texted for a few weeks later. After a month of taking via text mostly, told her she had pretty eyes & cute lips. It felt appropriate but I may have misread the situation. Now she is making it abundantly clear that she thinks I’m some sort of creep checking her out at work. Avoiding eye contact while taking directly to me. Wearing a mask whenever she is taking to me etc. Sitting with her back facing a wall. I have not spoken to her after she started behaving awkwardly. At this point, I want absolutely nothing to do with her and I just want to leave her alone. I moved my seat away from her. I keep to myself and I don’t bother her at all but I feel that she is making it too awkward and telling other people I’m a creep.
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Keep doing what you’re doing. Never interact with this woman again.
>After a month of taking via text mostly, told her she had pretty eyes & **cute lips**
Don’t ever compliment a woman’s lips unless you’ve already been intimate. Idk what would make that seem appropriate because from this blurb it never sounded like this chick was into you.
Now we know for the future
Well this is one reason why you shouldn’t date someone from work. But if they already see you as a creep, it’s best to leave things alone because you don’t want to become that crazy creep now because you still look at you or try to talk to her when she’s clearly not interested.