Hi all,
So my GF and I have a very healthy sex life, we have sex 3/4 times a week and she absolutely loves anal, to the point where we do that mostly and she can cum from penetration alone!
She has recently been suggesting she wants to do stuff to me, she’s licked/fingered my ass occasionally in the past, but she’s been going on about using her dildo on me for quite a while.
So last week I thought fuck it, let’s see what the fuss is about. I made sure I was clean and shaved and we started off having sex as usual, after 5/10 minutes she lubed up her finger and started rubbing it on my ass, I felt excited and it felt nice (but cold) and she asked me to stop fucking her, turn around and bend over. I did as she asked, she started eating/fingering my ass and it felt weird/nice I guess. Then she pulled out her dildo (average size of 5/6”) and started rubbing it on my asshole.
She asked if I was ready and then slowly pushed it in, it hurt initially and I asked her to stop, it instantly killed my boner, so we waited a few minutes and I said to her we could try again, I really wanted to see how she found it so pleasurable and orgasm from it alone.
After pushing it in again, it still hurt, but a little bit less, she slowly pushed it in more and slowly thrusted for 5/10 minutes.. I really struggled to get my dick hard initially, I did just leave it and wait for an amazing orgasm to happen hands free, but there was nothing. It didn’t feel horrendous, but it didn’t feel amazing either? She started talking dirty to me and I got excited, my cock got hard again, but I asked her to keep it slow, after another 10 minutes of her talking dirty to me and me being submissive for once – I managed to cum from stroking my cock and being extremely turned on! It was a lot of cum and probably one of the best orgasms I’ve had. But without being really turned on and having to stroke my cock, nothing really happened? I dunno maybe I just wasn’t relaxed enough…
Shortly afterwards she said to me, that real cock always feels so much better than most dildos, maybe you would have enjoyed it more if it was real?
I was shocked that she said that, I’ve always said to her that I don’t look at guys and get turned on, I can say a bloke is good looking, but I don’t want to do anything to/with them.
But now a small part of me is wondering if we should try that, she knows a lot of bi/gay guys and maybe we could try something where a bi guy fucks both of us (but I don’t do anything to him)? I’ve always said to her I’ve been intrigued by watching her get fucked by someone else. But I don’t know if that’s just a heat in the moment / during sex thought and maybe it could ruin our relationship if it didn’t work out.
I’m just a little confused by it all – does anyone else have or had similar experiences and have any suggestions?
TL:DR – missus loves anal, I tried receiving it and managed to cum, but it took a lot of mental stimulation/work to get there and wasn’t as great as I thought it was going to be. She then suggested I tried getting fucked by a real dick, but I’m not gay, but intrigued to see if it feels better, but quite confused by the situation!