We (30F, 32M) have been together for 6 years and we are at the phase where we would like to spice things up a little.
One of her “things” is that she likes to masturbate at semi-public places (e.g. public restrooms, changing room, etc). We would like to use this as a base for a shared thing, but we are a bit lost on how to do it. Brainstorming brought up some ideas like
– setting up a video chat while it happens, but we are a bit sceptical how safe that is technically
– buying a lush that is controlled by the other party
but we are sure that there are more ideas to discover, but apparently we are not creative enough. And this is where we thought reddit would come in handy.
We would like to ask you to give us some ideas, do not hold back, that we could use to find the best solution to our “problem”.
Any help is appreciated, thanks!