To preface, I’ve never been a person who is grossed out by feet, unless they’re just dirty and crusty and gross. To me, they’re just another part of the body, like a hand or leg or arm or whatever. I’ve always been able to appreciate if a woman has pretty feet (clean / pedicured) but it was never more than that. My gf has always felt the same way.
Over the past several years of dating, especially more recently, there’s been quite a few instances that I think have triggered something in me. Many times during sex, I will be eating her out and she will start playing with my penis using her foot. There’s also been several times where she’s wrapped her foot / leg around the back of my head and pulled my face into her crotch. Even outside of sex, there have been a few times she’s put her feet in my face as a joke, or caressed my crotch (over the pants) with her foot, and she tends to rub her feet on me a lot.
I’ve noticed that I’ve started becoming aroused at the sight of her feet or when she rubs them on me and I find myself stimulated at the thought of them. She’s also worn a toe ring a couple times and I found I was VERY attracted to it. I know it’s one of the most common fetishes, but I can’t help but feel embarrassed about it because how many people also say that it’s weird or gross. She’s even told me (a couple years ago) that she would think it was kinda weird if I was into her feet.
I basically just have this feeling of embarrassment and shame and don’t know how to bring it up to her. I’m sure I’m overthinking it but I just don’t know how to admit to it without feeling like a weirdo, but wow would I love to see her wear toe rings regularly. Any advice on how to bring this up to her without sounding / feeling like a creep?
TL;DR – GF has touched me sexually with her feet quite a few times and now I think I have a foot fetish. How do I admit it to her without dying of embarrassment?