I (18F) have always had a high sex drive, even though I’ve lost my virginity only recently with my first boyfriend (19M).
Although I never had sex up until 1 month ago, I know my kinks extremely well and I always feel the need to do something with my partner, even when we’re not together or when we’re in a social context.
My main problem is that my boyfriend has had many other experiences before me and he has a high sex drive, but not as high as mine, and I feel like I’m the one that is always searching for more, that wants a physical link rather than an emotional one.
I’m very into bdsm and he is too, a little, but he never satisfy me as I want and he prefers to cuddle when we’re together, rather than have sex and that really bothers me.
I’ve never been able to come, not even by myself, and now I’m starting to think that I will never be satisfied. I really like this guy and everything, sex-wise, is good, but it’s not enough and I don’t know how to make him understand that I need more and more rough.
I’ve also discussed this topic with some of my girl friends and they think having a sex drive as high as mine is not a good thing for a relationship and it’s better that I keep it to myself, but it’s starting to bother me deeply.