As someone with a fairly high libido that has been lucky enough to have been with partners with relatively high sex drive in the past I am really struggling in my current relationship.
We have only been together for 6 months and I really liked her from the first time we met and I have developed really deep feelings for her in this short time. I took it slow in the beginning, just dating with no pressure to have sex until it happened naturally on about the 5th or 6th date and it was amazing, she seemed to be really into it and orgasmed at least twice.
Since that time we have had sex only very occasionally, but again it is always amazing.
I have recently raised the question, why don’t we have sex more often and she admitted to not really liking sex, I find this statement weird because it so good and she is obviously into it when it happens. I assume she means she has a low libido and doesn’t want sex regularly.
We have discussed the issue and we agreed we need to try and compromise, but how do you compromise on something that is not really controllable?
I am not sure how to proceed, it has been only 6 months and I feel like we have missed the honeymoon period and I am very worried what the future is going to be like.
Has anyone overcome this issue and made the relationship work or should I just get out now?
TL:DR I am in a relationship with someone with a low libido, should I continue and hope it improves after 6 months?