10 years together and sex hasn’t been great. However I’d like to preface I didn’t realize it until now, after having our kiddo.. Usually sex ends when he cums. Little to no foreplay, if there is, maybe less than 10 min.. and sex lasts 5min or less. I have brought up to him that our intimacy is lacking, there seems to be little to no effort on his part.. he’ll ask for a quickie or bj and once he cums that’s it. Even if I’m horny as hell.. still the same outcome every time. When I bring it up to him, he gets defensive and really angry.. says I’m just trying to cause problems or start fights when genuinely I want to fix this.. helpppp