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Yes I speak from much experience on this matter of being overprotective, so I figured I’d share the wisdom.
If people want to dislike you, they’ll do so whether they have your permission or not lol. & they’re more likely to dislike you based off of you gatekeeping what’s good about you. They don’t know what it is you’re gatekeeping. So then they’re suspicious of you & dislike you. That then leads to you lacking confidence. Just put your best foot forward & walk.
The more you’re shown positive emotions, the more your best side will come out. Allow people to like you. People like different things. You may not like a particular “flaw” you have, but someone else doesn’t see it as a flaw. Either way, be with your people.
The best way to connect with the right people for you is by being yourself.
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