I dont know if my boyfriend is attracted to me sexually
Our emotional connection is 10/10. Im 28F and he is 31M. We have been dating for almost a year and have not had intercourse. He has only fingered me, thats the farthest we have gotten. Ive never done anything to him, whenever I try he rejects it and shuts it down. Hes not a virgin. He barley gets hard with me. We are very physically affectionate in other ways like cuddling, kissing, holding hands, hugging ect. He says he is very attracted to me and calls me beautiful and gorgeous everyday, sometimes multiple times a day. He blames it on nerves and timing. I have tried many times to comfort his nerves and be very patient but I am just starting to feel very insecure, rejected and distrustful at this point. Im starting to believe he is not sexually attracted to me despite him loving me and despite him telling me that he IS very attracted to me. What is your opinion?
TLDR: My boyfriend and I havent had sex and we have been dating a year. Is he not attracted to me?