For some vague context:

I matched with a beautiful woman on tinder, we are both early 20s. I am a guy. (A secret between u and me – this is my first date ever but please don’t tell anyone😬)

We got to know each other a little bit on tinder and we’ve been snapchatting for a couple of days now. We so far talked about things like what we’re looking for in a relationship (both long term), family, food, hobbies, music, jobs, school and that’s pretty much it.

We have not met in person. We have our first date in a couple of days. I think I am a better communicator in person but in the meantime we’ll Snapchat. I want to be respectful of boundaries and I do not want to make her uncomfortable but I also don’t want to be boring her away. I just want to ensure that she has a good time.

I was wondering what you guys thought was an appropriate time to bring up topics like sex. Should I wait for her to bring it up? Is being a virgin a turn off / let down? Also, I was wondering if you guys had any tips for me at this stage. (should I be insecure that I am inexperienced and someone as pretty as her surely is not inexperienced like myself? Or am I tripping?)


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