edit: i'm a girl! totally forgot to specify lmao ðŸ˜
Long story short, I didn't grow up in a place where people openly had sex before marriage and then life and college and everything got in the way. Suddenly I'm 24 and haven't actually done anything sexual with anyone. I'm open having sex but I'm so freaked out about being judged about it if i tell my partner that I wanna seem like I know what's going on.
I know that in a perfect world I would tell them what's the deal is but like I've heard so many men be derogatory about it that I don't want to be embarrassed. I'm overthinking! I don't know. Any advice or whatever you wanna say would be super helpful