How to play with my bf nipples?

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1. Try playing with his nipples like you would like for him to play with your nipples.

2. I like my nipples licked and sucked

3. Really just lick and kiss them. Men have such tiny nipples I find it hard to really get much play out of them.

4. Lick them, tease them with your tongue without touching them. Then attack them by licking and sucking on them. Make circles around them.

   That’s cool that your bf likes it, because a lot of guys don’t want to have their nipples play with, even though they like it. They have this thing that it’s feminine to like it. It’s stupid macho BS.

5. I’ve asked my guy to play with mine the way he wants me to play with his. Lead by example!

   Edit to add, yeah my nipples are way different from his. I add to the experience by giving him a handjob with my free hand while I go to town on his chest.

6. Just be gentle and slow sometimes women feel like they should be rough with men and sometimes that’s cool but really it’s about creating a relaxed vibe between two people not seeing how hard you can pull on them.(lookin at you Gerald🫣)

7. Circles around them and every now and then brush up against a nipple lightly.  Tease them.

8. I love playing with men’s nipples, it makes me so happy when I have a partner who likes it too! I like to start slowly, work him up – for example before you even start having sex (maybe even at a bar or club or something) cuddle up to him, kiss him etc, and then put a hand on his chest, sort of centring his nipple (over his clothes). And then slowly scrape with your nails (go from hand fully splayed to making a 🤌 with your fingers and back out again). This will definitely get his motor running a bit before you even start having sex. Brush against his nipples “accidentally”, maybe tweaking one slightly from time to time. This is all before you get to the bedroom.

   When you start, and your clothes start coming off, kiss your way down his chest, dragging your own boobs against his skin, rubbing your nipples against his, going in random patterns, maybe even skip the nipples down your first pass, or maybe just a hot exhale so he feels your breath against his skin. When you start, start slowly, running your hands and lips against his skin, maybe a pointed kitten lick when your mouth gets involved, and pulling back to blow cold air on his nipples once they’re covered in saliva. It’s best if you can do this while straddling him, because if he involuntarily bucks up at any point, you can grind your pussy back down on him. I like to alternate kissing or licking around the nipple before really getting your mouth on it, slow licks with the flat of your tongue mixed with pursed wet lip contact and licking just the very tip of the nipple with a pointed, stiff tongue. You can use your hands too – rubbing, grabbing (a bit harder to do with men though, since their chests are flat), maybe running your nails across them uncovered as well.

   Sucking is also good, but I’d spend some time licking and using your hands first, warm him up. A combination of licking and sucking is great, especially if you do the blowing cold air thing from time to time because the temperature differential between your warm wet mouth and the cold air really sensitises the skin.

   Also – spend your time with it, the nipples are an underrated erogenous zone for many men. I have also occasionally sucked a hickey into the chest near the nipple, or pinched and pulled the nipple if the guy seems into a little bit of pain. It’s really fun to work him up by kissing or licking all around, making him impatient before suddenly pinching at his nipple and then soothing it with your mouth before pulling back and letting the cold air hit him. The contrasting sensations add to the arousal.

   Also – don’t sleep on teeth. Biting (hard) is usually bad, but just grazing with your teeth on the very edge of the nipple or maybe nipping the skin around is again very arousing for many people, including guys.

   Enjoy! Hope this helps!

9. Sit cross legged and let him lie on his back with his head in your lap. Also feels really great if you use massage oil.