Ever since I started having sex I was having trouble finishing. I could only do that after a loooooot of effort.
It’s not my fault I don’t know how to fix it and my gf keeps insisting that she she feels that making me finish is a challenge every time. I can’t stop crying honestly cause I haven’t done anything wrong and I’m being treated like I’m some sort of a freak being asked really aggressively if I’m gonna be okay not finishing every time I have sex. Every time I reply yes, since it is not important to me i get “yeah ok’s”. And I keep feeling I am not enough like I’m a constant disappointment to her. I mean I know I’m sexually useless but the most important thing to me is for her to enjoy it. And she clearly isn’t. I know the most obvious choice is to break up since we are not compatible but then again I’m not compatible with anyone….. But I love her and I don’t want to break up with her… what the heck am I supposed to do? Am i supposed to fucking cut my dick off to avoid all of this?
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Do you masturbate? A lot of guys either do it too much or use too tight of a grip and that can effect you.
Also, is she atleast reaching orgasm?