My GF (24F) doesn’t have sex with me (22M) anymore.?
She just isn’t interested into anything sexual anymore . She says she doesn’t know why she hasn’t been in the mood and she can’t explain . She thinks maybe because we aren’t as affectionate as we used to be but says she doesn’t even know if it’s that. She asked me to be more affectionate and stuff like that be more physical loving with her. I’ve tried and tried and every time I try to touch her or cuddle her at night in bed it doesn’t matter where or how I touch her she always says it tickles her… like why all of a sudden the last year your ticklish in all these areas you weren’t 2 years ago? When I give her kisses and hugs she just gives me a peck on the lips and half way hugs me. She acts fine , and happy and is talkative in all other areas of our relationship. It’s just weird to me all of sudden you just aren’t in the mood anymore for months at a time. I try to get her in the mood like she has told me multiple times but every time I try she acts annoyed. So I obviously don’t want to push it . And when we do have sex she’s always says hurry up and finish I’m ready to lay down or something like that. It’s like she rushes me. It always has to be missionary she won’t get on top anymore or even give a blowjob . We used use toys and just have fun and try different things out.. I ALWAYS have to go down on her she literally pushes my head down there to hint at it . I ask her why she doesn’t give me blowjobs anymore and she said “it hurts” like okay…. It didn’t hurt 2 years ago? I’ve asked her about it and like I said she just says she doesn’t know why . It’s just frustrating to me because it seems like and I feel like she’s no longer attracted to me like that. I know a relationship isn’t all about sex but it’s honestly just a huge blow to my confidence and self esteem. It’s starting to make me unhappy in other areas of our relationship. This is most unhappy in ever felt in this relationship. And I also seen on her instagram that she has been saving post from other guys. I haven’t said anything about it yet. But also I had to buy a toy and get it shipped discreetly to keep myself pleased. I feel guilty about even doing that and hiding it from her because I had previously toys from before our relationship she found and she got pissed and told me to throw them out. But at some point i gotta get the job done rather it be her or myself. … it’s just not normal that she all of sudden isn’t in the mood anymore… at least to me.. am I overthinking? Am I not respecting her?