TL;DR. My girlfriend (f30) messaged me ( m30) around 7 saying she's on her way home (we live together). Everytime I called her she was 20 minutes away and was somewhere diffrent. By the time she got home it was 1030 she was with her friend amd they just left the bar.
For some context right before this we had a huge failure to communicate. I got my daughter for the weekend and she got rid of hers all of which happend last minute. After we figured that out she said ok I'm omw an after the an hour an a half amd me calling her 2 time said she wanted to still go out and asked if I wanted her to come home. After that no communication until I would call and then she would say oh I stopped her. It wasn't until 10 I was like dude amd the. She showed up 30 minutes later with her girlfriend. I told her it felt disrespectful idk why you didn't just say hey I'm going out from the beginning and she brings up hiw hard she worked and how there were time I'd shed smell alcohol on me amd she didn't say anything. I'm like Idc about the alcohol I'm just confused why after 3 hours of saying omw you ended up home after the bar? Am I wrong for being upset ? I tried to tell her that I think that looks weird from my perspective amd she insist UT just isn't amd I'm over reacting trying to create a fake fight?
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– disrespect is disrespect. We expect adults to like, act like an adult. Obviously she did not want to tell you what she was doing and that is a problem…