I recently became fwb with a friend of mine, and noticed that she has some issues that I didn't know about before. I'd really like to help her overcome them, but what I tried up until now didn't help at all. The main problems are:
She comes from a cristian family, and is ashamed of… everything in this situation (after sex she will just lie down hiding her face and not talking; can't bear to see/touch my penis without clothes if not for piv…)
She is very insecure about herself, her body, her experience (im her first, while she is not mine)…
She is impossible to talk to, honestly: anything I ask her is just met with "i don't know" "it felt nice" and "i have no experience so I have no idea", and it doesn't help me at all to make it a better, more comfortable experience for her. No setting change helped her
This is more a me problem i guess, but she likes piv to be fas and steady, while giving no hj or bj or anything, so I cant last long enough for her the first time, and point 1 makes it hard to get round 2 without a lot of time, that we rarely have. (I give her lots of oral, so she still enjoys sex)
I tried everything that came to my mind, but it did not help. So i'm here asking, what can I do? it's clear to me that there is a lot that has to be done, so i'm open to any suggestion