Some backstory first. This girl and I have been friends for about 7 years and we started actually talking for a little over a month. We’ve told each other that we really like each other but she just got
out of a long relationship and we had planned on not talking for a while until she’s ready to really
date. We’ve said this a few times but always end up hanging out a few days later. This happened again
last week and we hung out yesterday.
Things were going fine and we were having a good time before and during dinner until I mentioned I had a joint in my car and we can smoke and play
arcade games at a place next door. We smoked and about 30 minutes later I started getting self conscious about everything and I got quiet and
awkward, like I couldn’t keep a good conversation. I was giving the vibe that I didn’t want to be there or that I didn’t want to hang out with her that day.
Maybe I’m still just overthinking it lol but should I mention it to her today? Just apologize for getting weird last night or should I just brush that off and
not bring it up.
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Do Not mention it. If she brings it up, just tell her you got a little too stoned and dont apologize or get all apologetic acting. Everyone who has smoked has gotten too paranoid and weird around their friends, it happens, dont stress it.