I (28f) had been dating this guy (35m) for a couple months, we talked and saw each other often and things seemed well. Then, after a brief text exchange last weekend, silence. On Wednesday I followed up (as we were supposed to see each other that day) and he said he wasn’t mentally well. I offered to talk and asked if he needed anything and he thanked for me the offer and said he his sister was looking after him. Since then, silence.

I thought about following up again soon and asking how he’s holding up and whether he needs anything, but I’m not sure how to handle this situation and whether he needs space. He has spoken about his past mental health struggles, so I want to be understanding and supportive, but this is all very confusing and I can’t shake off the feeling he’s done with me and has ghosted. It all happened so suddenly too.Any advice would be highly appreciated.


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