So I love getting fucked. I don’t really care for oral or other means of getting off. Having a dick pound me down is the hottest thing ever. It usually feels good, sometimes a bit like nothing, but there have been a handful of occasions where I feel like I’m having a massive, nonstop orgasm. It feels completely random, and I can’t pinpoint any variables that make it possible. The mood and foreplay can be great and I can be super turned on, position the same, his energy the same… but most of the time, it just doesn’t happen. I’m starting to get frustrated to the point where I can’t enjoy sex as much without that magical phenomenon. I thought we (my partner and I) “leveled up” so to speak the first couple of times it’s happened… I try not to let it get to my head, try to just enjoy what’s happening even though it’s not fucking incredible, but I lowkey wish that I would reliably go to heaven every time I get fucked. What can we do?
Flagged anatomy because I’m frustrated with mine.
EDIT~~~
In response to the number of posts suggesting ovulation to be the culprit…
I’m a transgender guy on testosterone. I haven’t had a period for the 8 years that I’ve been on HRT, and I’m a bodybuilder with a high muscle mass/low BF ratio so my body probably NOPEd the fuck out of ovulation altogether a long time ago. My doctor suggested that this was the case, but of course I can’t be 100% sure.
As for hormones impacting this at all, I’ve had many, many sexual partners in my lifetime, both prior to and on testosterone, and I’ve only EVER experienced this level of pleasure from penetration with my current partner of one year. So I dunno, but I’ve been having the best sex of my life in 2024 at 33 years old.
I have a non-hormonal IUD, so birth control isn’t the issue.
I don’t like using toys; major turnoff (flesh, primal and au naturel is my thing). I’m just trying to experience the mind-blowing PIV we’ve had that handful of times without any other kind of stimulation, especially since it tends to be distracting rather than an integrated experience. I’ve tried masturbating during, but I’m so specific with how I need to touch myself to feel good that it just kinda doesn’t work.