Hello! (I am female, 27 for reference. Husband is 29)
I want to start out saying that my husband and I have a loving relationship and he is willing to pretty much try anything to improve our sex life. Or lack of.
I have a HIGH sex drive, like through the roof. I could go twice a day. I'm also a freak lol I want to do some kinky shit. My husband is very vanilla. Which is okay in itself, we compromise. The issue is lately he never gets horny. He said he still loves and is very attracted to me, but he just can't get horny. We have been under a lot of stress and haven't had time to really date each other, we are just now getting a break from a rough school year with a special needs child. He's been exhausted from long work hours as well. He's going to go to the doctor, but in the meantime, is there anything I can do? I'm going insane.
He's not really interested in helping me out sexually either and I honestly would rather not have it at all if he's not into it. I also take FOREVER to cum be of how insecure l've been feeling and the disconnect we've had from not dating regularly and getting stuck in a rut. I'm sure that's part of his issue too. What can we do in the meantime to help me not be crazy lol? He's talked about blue chew but I worry about the effect it can have on his body