Hello everyone,
My girlfriend (F26) and I (M21) have been together for more than five months. This is our first relationship for both and our first experience with sex. Sometimes when we have sex I lose my erection after some minutes and I struggle to get another erection later. Most of the time we just give up but sometimes I just need to wait for a few minutes to get another erection.
Of course this is really frustrating for both of us, and the more it happens the more I'm anxious and I keep thinking about my erection even when it is working because I'm scared of losing it. I think my problem could be anxiety/stress or from my previous porn consumption (I started when I was really young).
My girlfriend has a low self esteem and she says I lose erection because maybe I don't like her body. I already told her that she is everything for me and I love her body, but she keeps blaming herself.
She is such a caring and genuine person and I love her so much, I wish I could solve this issue.
What is your opinion? Thank you
PS: I'm not native, sorry if I made mistakes.