Hi everyone,
Not sure if this is out of place on this community so I apologize if it is. But it’s something that’s been bothering me a lot recently and I wanted to get some counsel on it. I (22M) feel anxious about my heterosexuality because there has been a lot of messaging to my generation that finding a woman attractive and glancing at her is “ wrong and perverse”. I know my heart and I know that I value everyone past their physical appearance, but sometimes I’ll see someone I find attractive and feel guilty for even looking or having a thought that she is pretty. Does anyone else have this problem or have any advice?