I’ve been wanting to try anal sex or just put a dildo in my ass. The most i can do is my two fingers, and i’m actually just only really comfortable with one finger in my ass. I got a butt plug but it was way too wide. none of it would go in. i’ve never actually used lube in my life. so i was wondering if using lube would help put it in. it’s a has a length of 3.3in and diameter of 1.3in. so it’s pretty wide. so i’m not sure if even with lube i’d be able to get in.
should i try using lube and stay with the big butt plug, or should i buy new much smaller and build up to the bigger one? i probably might even use lube anyway with the small ones. i think? i wanna be able to have anal sex with a man.