Throw away account.
Partner and I have had a lot of struggles in the field of sex. Tldr – absolutely no interest on her end and an incredibly high sex drive on my end.
We try what she asks – no improvement.
We try what I ask – no improvement.
Blood tests, spicing it up, opening up emotionally to find if there's a root cause – nothing.
Being more communicative, more dates, more thrill, new experiences, traveling, changing birth control pills, working out and successfully losing weight on both ends, better diet, keto, tabs chocolate, maca tea, sensual massages – none of these have had any positive impact on our sex life.
She has admitted she doesn't have any desire in anyone else in any way whatsoever and I firmly and confidently believe her. She's never given me a reason to not believe and trust her.
I'm left with a vasectomy so she could quit her hormonal birth control. I'm not upset with this option by any means. In fact, I pitched the idea a year ago – we both don't want children and haven't changed our stance since we met 3 yrs ago and even before then.
I would love to know how libido has changed for those women who have stopped taking the pill.
Please provide any info or recommendations for fixing low libido in women. I have tried so hard to change how highly I value sex in a relationship, but it's vital to my core and existence if I'm going to be in a happy relationship.