What is a good way to let a woman know that I’d really enjoy being seduced without just saying it?

I fantasize about being seduced by women even more so than sex itself. Call it trying to make up for getting zero attention from women until well into adulthood. The problem is, if I tell a woman I like being seduced… it sort of spoils it because it isn't spontaneous. Is there a way to put out non-verbal signs that say "if you make me feel like you want me, I will show you that I want you"?