I (28f) and my partner (30m) have been together 5 years and thought we had an honest relationship but I guess not? I feel a bit upset. My phone had died and my spare phone was dead so while my phone was charging I used my partners old spare phone to do a quick few google searches and what I found shocked me a bit.
I went to clear the history as he always clears it and I found porn on there which yeah okay whatever he is a guy and I guess sex everyday and doing what I can to make him happy isn't enough and he has more urges but I also found 2 websites I've honestly never even heard of. A nasty hookup website and chaturbate.
I had a proper look at the website and it made me feel sick in the gut. I seen the last access dates and everything and I just don't know what to do. I feel as if it is cheating what I seen but maybe I'm just looking to far into it.
I just thought we had a healthy life in that department don't know why that would even be looked up.
Is looking at that stuff cheating?