Without the generic “work on yourself” advice. How do I meet and approach women? Where do I go for first, second, and third dates? When do you make things “official”?
I feel like I missed some life course everyone else got on romance sometimes, and it kind of fucking blows. I’ve had attractive women attracted to me that I fumble because I either wait too long and they get bored or I come on too strong and they ghost. Can’t seem to strike a medium anywhere I try.
And fucks sakes, I know some broke ass, bum ass dudes that are out of shape and unintelligent as shit getting the sugar mommy treatment. Now I’m not saying I want to be a freeloader, but I feel like just landing and holding a relationship past the 3 month mark is absurdly difficult for me. It obviously isn’t that hard to date when in every thread asking women what they want from men super basic stuff like hygiene and personal responsibility are the top responses. Frankly, I don’t think I’m that ugly.
What the hell am I missing?