Together for 3 months. She's insanely in love with me and attracted to me but she wrote down submissive as part of her list of things she loves about me in a very long love letter. Of course reading it fucked with my head a bit. I never thought we were like that.
How I describe our relationship:
First, I'm a regular guy, very loving, loyal, grew up with good principles. I'm very gentlemanly with her. Our dynamic is very man to woman. She can be quite naggy sometimes, I tend to not overreact to her. She calls me ''nonchalant'' all the time. In sex, its mostly just vaginal and I prioritize her, which I always found easy with women because I find I've always found it hard for me to climax during sex. The most submissive thing I do is this joke we both find hilarious that if we start heating up with an argument in public that she'd publicly abuse me but as a joke. It's possible she might have some kind of power complex I haven't properly seen or analysed. But overall our communication and dynamic is very healthy.
Is she right?
TLDR: GF called me submissive though I never thought we were like that