I live with my in laws in mumbai.i left my job and started prepping for an exam for my PG. I want to prepare with full dedication but my in laws are toxic AF. I've to cook for the family and everytime I'm in the kitchen i hear my in laws bitching about me on smallest on things.they nit pick everything and judge me from the time I'm awake till I sleep.They even Gaslight my husband against me and won't let me visit my parents for few months so that I can get some peace
When I confronted my husband he told me to ignore all that since they're "old" and they would be hurt if his son sides with me in front of them. I love him and I don't want to spoil our relationship so I don't want to involve him further. besides this Raja beta syndrome I don't have any complaints with him. My internet laws treat my husband like he's 5 year old kid , won't let him do even basic shores and want me to serve him which I've no problems with but again they find fault in stuff and tag me " careless" or "lazy" .
What should I do so that I can focus on my studies without paying heed to all these bullshit.Should i answer back or should I remain silent ?