So I went to a bar with a friend and honestly, we didn’t do much cuz we found it hard to actually talk and start conversations with people. So it had me wondering, how do you strike up convos with people at bars?

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  1. I guess it sort of depends which sort of bar you’re in… A large part of it in all cases is start some sort of small talk and keeping it going with the person.

    Sports bar > maybe make a comment to someone about one of the sports on tv or ask who they support.

    Social bars > make a comment about someone: outfit, something about their shoes and asking where to get them from.

    Local bar > ask them how their night is going, ask if local.

    Not all these will lead to a full convo but sometimes they will start to open people up and if you hit the right area they won’t stop talking. It’s also important that once someone answers you you have something to follow up with.

  2. You just do it… but it depends entirely on how good looking you are(that is with women and some men), if you’re good looking or average looking it will be well received, if you’re ugly… why’re you at a bar in the first place?

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