I have autism and I’ve always kinda struggled with what counts as friendship. At school I have classmates who I talk to inside of school and follow on social media, but I don’t hang out with any of them outside of school or text them very often. I just assumed that none of my classmates wanted to be friends but some of them claimed to be my friend and now Im kinda confused. I see them all hanging out without me and they have a group chat without me and I’m starting to think they’re making fun of me or just feel bad for me. Help.
5 comments
Fuck ’em
Assume they’re being legit and enjoy yourself.
If they claim to be your friend, could be worth opening up and explaining your autism and how you feel. Better that people understand that so they don’t misinterpret any differences in your behaviour as being unfriendly or cold.
I you have trouble with subtle social signs, being direct can be beneficial.
Don’t overthink it, you decide who your friends are.
Just enjoy yourself. Don’t overthink it and be positive!