Closed: no more messages please.
For Someone who doesn't own a house or a high paying job and investments next to nothing. How do you even approach a girl with those facts given that you are looking for something long term and not just a hookup.
Edit: After reading some generous comments and giving it a little thought I've come to a conclusion that the material things aren't "needs" but are "wants" hidden in plane sight and i have to find someone who pushs me to become the man who can provide those "wants" but also isn't the reason she is with me.
Thank you for your time.