My fetishes include being dominated / humiliated / feet. I have told her that I'm a switch and I like it both ways. I've told her early on in our relationship that I like these things too. But she's explicitly said that she's not into being a domme and in particular into feet things. She's said it a few times and from then on I haven't mentioned it again.
She'll often ask what my fantasies are or whether I want her to do anything specific but I've always thought it futile to mention it again when she isn't going to do it. We have a normal sex life but I do enjoy the kinkier side to things.
This weekend we're going away and I want to play some sex games. I been having a look online for some ideas, but a lot of it is along the lines of writing down fantasies and then acting them out. I have no idea what to write or what to say because it's to hard figure out what I'm into, that isn't the aforementioned things.
Any advice or thoughts are welcome.