I know this may not sound like a problem to most people, but my wife and I are having some difficulties with our sex life, because she is only able to orgasm from intercourse and not from clitoral stimulation. I feel like we are missing out and want to make things better for her. Sometimes she feels like she has to endure intercourse even when it's not feeling good since it's her only chance for orgasm.
When it comes it clitoral stimulation, I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. When I try to touch her, I just can never find a spot that feels good even when she is trying to guide my hand. I feel like a complete beginner, even though we've been having sex for so many years. I've bought books and done online courses, but none have really addressed this issue. I'm looking for some tips on how to get better at this so I can make sex more enjoyable for her.