Hi Reddit community!
I just want to share and confirm if this is a normal thing happening to people going to the gym.
Im a guy in early 30s (bottom) and I have a boyfriend (top) for more than 5yrs ady. Recently, i just joined a gym for me to achieve a healthier lifestyle and good physique. I have been struggling to lose weight and my clothes are already getting too tight for me to wear.
Back on january 2024, i signed up for a gym membership (local/rural gym only) so i could start my fitness journey (?? Lol). However, i noticed lately that i have become more and more horny to the point that I feel the urge to have sex with my boyfriend everytime he and i are in a private space (for context – i am not a sexual person).
It’s even harder at night when we are going to sleep as he is used to sleeping naked. Everytime i see his dick, i feel the urge to either suck it or sit on it. Unlike before that i am just able to sleep through it, it’s getting harder for me to resist the temptation now.
This makes me wonder if going to the gym has anything to do with this.
I have tried retracing things i have done other than going to the gym but everything else are within the normal scope of things i do on a routine basis and the gym is the only major thing i can think of.
Are there any others out there whos experiencing this? Can this urge be stopped? Or should i just go with it?
Pls let me know how to move forward. TIA!