(im a girl) I have had my 2 guy friends since my senior year of high school and now through college. It is fun hanging out with them but at the end of the day, I cant hang out with them a lot because they just annoy me. Am I not wanting their friendship anymore?
I know they are nice at heart but I can't have a single good day with them without being pissed at them for doing something stupid. I also get jealous of how close they are to each other, they used to be closer to me, but now all they do is hang with one another. And the reason that is bad for me is because when they are together they become like 2 year olds, talk about touching each other or just mess around and destroy some of my stuff. Also one of them is touchy and ugh.
I'm also a b*tch to them when I'm annoyed though. Like I went to the restroom at dinner and when I returned my water was empty, and they both had their water. They drank my water and their own water. I was pissed like I was thirsty af. I just kept quiet with a rbf and asked for another water, but turns out my water was actually the water in front of him he was pretending to sip.
Like back in high school I wouldn't have been as mad, but now all I see is them as annoying 2-year-olds who can't do anything but mess around.
I am not like this with any of my other friends, only them.
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Get new friends, I’m sure they’ll appreciate it.
They are either extremely immature, or genuinely believe they’re flirting. I (26m) used to also do this, therefore I’m speaking from experience.
Do either of them have girlfriends or sex lives? Because if I’m right, I wouldn’t be surprised if they don’t.