What do you consider attributes or aspects of a good healthy relationship? Before I started dating my now ex, I thought I could recognize red and green flags. Now that I've finally digested all of the orange and red flags that really were waving in my fucking face since the beginning, I cannot comprehend a man actually displaying and practicing true green flags.
Do these unicorns exist???? I am used to giving 110% and receiving maybe 3% back. I am done being used and taken for granted and being an enabler. But is that truly possible with men?
I've also sadly come to the conclusion that this relationship endured emotional and some physical abuse. I never understood why women would stay with an abuser, but now I know just how complicated it really is. It almost became like a baseline for love. I'm just so sad for myself.
Sorry, ended up being more than one solid question. Lmao any advice is welcome to help me sort out good v bad. TIA.