I’m talking as you’re physically doing it, but it’s bad or there’s no connection and you don’t want to continue having sex. Obviously no one wants to just let a man or woman continue touching their body if they aren’t into it, but it’s uncomfortable to say “I’m not into this” as they’re literally inside of you. Ran into some pretty bad sex tonight with zero connection and I wanted to cry with how much I wanted him to leave. I told him I needed to take a second because I was overstimulated, and then a few minutes later said I think I needed to call it a night.
How else are you guys removing yourself from just “getting through it” and how are you wording it when you’re not interested mid act? I feel like it’s natural to have these run ins so I want to feel better prepared next time.