Hello,

help a girl out. I'm a gym rat. I love gym and I am bodybuilding nerd. I frequent gym 5 x week. Usually 3 local gyms. Depends on a day and workout. Mostly one that is closest to me. I would love to meet someone there. I believe it's a great place to meet someone. It's my passion so makes sense to meet a potential partner that enjoys the same activities.

I am fully aware that men might be scared to approach women at a gym these days.

How can I approach a guy in a light, approachable, flirty yet not aggressive or embarrassing way? Is it even possible? How can I let someone know I'm interested?

For a bigger picture: I'm 37 (I would like to think that when people tell me I look way younger it's true). 5'6 and 120lbs. I do have abs (a decent 2-pack) So I do look somewhat intermediate. I'm a natty, so I'm not big or anything, and never will be. I look more like a bikini competitor mid prep, I don't think that's intimidating or anything.

What else I can say from asking: how many sets do yo have left? 😉

Asking to spot me seems too much tho :/

I would know how to cut off a creep, but how do I invite someone to a conversation? :/ I myself don't want to be a creep

*English is not my first language, sorry for any errors.


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