Hello
Me and my boyfriend started doing sexual stuff recently. When he was fingering me, he had a boner that stood out 90 degrees from his body when he stood up. He's told me in the past that that is him 'half-hard'.
Sometimes when I looked back it would be even softer, too…
This hurt my feelings a bit. Especially because I feel like I'm not his type, it makes me overthink hes not as attracted to me.. or maybe he wasn't into what we were doing.
Am I overthinking? Maybe it's 'normal' for men to not become fully hard without touching? I'm very inexperienced
He doesn't have any erectile problems at all, he gets boners all the time it feels like, and he gets really hard when I do stuff to him.