Ive noticed that my orgasms (41F) have changed in quality over the years. When I was in my 20s, they felt very explosive and intense all over my body and my brain. Now, I feel the effects in my body, but it’s not as intense. I get a wave of pleasure (and the mechanical reactions), but I don’t really feel anything in my head, no explosive or tingly wave washing over my brain.
I was in an unhappy mariage throughout my 30s and had drug addiction issues. Now that I’m feeling better, and in good relationships, I have space to look into this. I wonder if I’ve severed or damaged the bond with my pleasure center in my brain or something? I was thinking of going to a sex therapist about this. Does anyone have any advice or experience with this?