I am a guy. Whenever I am on the street other guys give me attitude (usually guys in groups or in pairs), either looking at me agressively or looking at me derisively or just making themselves really tall. I always cave in physically when this happens. I become really insecure and start:
- looking around frightened (look at other people whether they are looking at me with frightened gase)
- start dropping my shoulders, lose core strength unable to walk straight with shoulders back
- start ruminating
- it then triggers more negative reactions from other people because i look like an easy target
Afterwards I feel like shit because it feels like others have one yet again. What can i do about this? I already work out (went from 127 lbs to 180 lbs and am 6.1 but i have a slim bone structure).