Me and my partner have been together for some months. This is both our first serious relationship. We are very happy with each other. She can only cum from clit stimulation, which I managed to get right the first time, and have improved and throw variations to it ever since.
I've had trouble with anxiety however. At first I couldn't even get it up. Now I'm able to enjoy hand/mouth play, but I don't always cum. I've found myself anxious to do so, to assert her that she's doing a great job, which usually ruins the whole thing. I have also had trouble being hard to penetrate her. Only once we were able to pull it off, but I couldn't cum from it. That time I took some CBD gummies to calm myself and Cialis to help with my erection.
We have talked about it and she is very supportive. I also go to therapy frequently. But I'm also here seeking for advice. I think once I manage to pull this off, the anxiety will go away. But I'm not sure.
Should we keep trying, kinda like exposure therapy? (we have fun with hand/mouth stuff). Is there anything else I can do? Is there anything else I can take? Any aphrodisiacs maybe?
Thank you for reading!